Monday, January 11, 2010

sibiling upside and downside

the girls have been sharing a room for about six months now and all in all it's gone really well. a friend asked the other day what it was like for both of them to sleep in the same room. my reply went something like this, "When they're sleeping well, it's great! When they aren't sleeping well, it stinks." and that pretty much sums it up.

we've had some recent developments though that are both heartwarming and incredibly trying. they both seem to be sleeping well at the moment (fingers crossed, no jinxing) and that is fabulous. they wake up at a decent hour each morning, both at about the same time, and we hear them giggling and talking and playing with each other for quite a while before they want to come out. it's beyond cute-- one of those golden moments of raising small children. but all this fun proves to be a little too much at bedtime. the normal routine is that sylvi nurses and then is put in her crib by me each night, at which time she passes out like a log-- dead asleep! then isa finishes her bath and gets her pjs on, reads a story with daddy, and we send her to bed as well. on a normal night, she passes out quickly without incident-- except several times in the last week or so, she has crawled down out of bed, turned on every light in the room, and proceeds to intentionally wake up her sister. to be fair, she is not doing it to be mean. actually quite the opposite. she wants to play! she gives sylvi stuffed animals, talks to her, makes her laugh, etc. while this might seem really cute on one hand, on the other hand it is not so cute at all. it usually ends in one upset toddler who would rather play with her sister than get back in bed and one overtired baby who can't figure out why the sudden party has ended and it's time for sleep again. oy.

sigh. there you have it. we will remind them on this one day when they are in college or maybe on prom night, while we tell every other amusing and embarrassing anecdote we can remember.

5 comments:

  1. Oh that's so cute...to me, but I can understand not for you. Isa already knows (maybe) that those shared days and memories will pass too quickly, and like you said, before long they will just be a story to share and laugh about. Love and miss you girls so much. Nanny

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  2. well, not sure that isa's thinking on the matter is so deep. i think it's more like: stay awake and play with sister= FUN! go to sleep= NOT FUN!

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  3. I think you won't have to remind them... keep this blog and have them read it... they probably won't believe it..lol It is endearing.. all of it even the rough spots... thanks for sharing this ! love to all xoxoxoxxo

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  4. Oh boy, I cannot believe we have not had that going on at our house. However i am pretty sure we make up for it in the morning with my 2 early risers :) And i too was just thinking the other day "When they are sleeping well it is great, when they are not it is miserable" :)

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  5. haha... yeah, you can keep your 6am wake up call rene! hopefully the nighttime party has been nipped in the bud, atleast for now. here's hoping right?

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